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I don’t get formal pictures of my boys nearly as frequently as I should. When I finally arranged a photo shoot for the two kids, it was a big deal. I made sure I bought and packed plenty of clothing change options. I carefully planned my departure from work so I could get the boys, get them changed, and make it to Menomonie where we were getting pictures done.

The weather was perfect, and I felt victorious as we made our way toward the photo shoot. We were on time, the boys were in their outfits, and everyone was in a good mood. I should have figured there was something suspicious when Easton fell oddly quiet in the backseat.

As we were within minutes of the photo location, Easton spoke up. “Mom! Look! My arm is green!”

There was a moment before I looked when I felt sheer panic hit me. I glanced back and saw that Easton had somehow gotten ahold of a green dry erase marker. His entire arm was covered in green. His hands were multicolored. There was a big green mark on his shirt.

I did what any self-respecting mother would do: I freaked out. “EASTON! I don’t have wipes! We’re getting pictures done! Oh my God! How could this happen?”

Luckily, the photographer was very well-prepared and talked us both off the ledge once we got there. To help any other families headed out for picture time this fall, I thought I’d share a few tips. (And if your child decides to color himself on the way to pictures, unfortunately these tips won’t help at all…)

1. Consider your surroundings when choosing outfits.

We had pictures taken at a rustic farm. I knew that meant red barns, so I stayed away from any colors that would blend into, or conflict with red. That meant I did a lot of stripes and grey and blue.

2. Bring accessories.

Luckily, our photographer brought some fun accessories. Just in case, I brought my oldest son’s guitar and a few other favorites. Not all photographers bring the accessories, so bring along anything you think might add to the photo, including hats, baskets, and more.

3. Avoid characters.

If Easton had his choice, family photos would include nothing but Lightning McQueen and Dusty Crophopper. However, characters can be really distracting in your photo, so it’s best to save those things for after the pictures.

4. Plan for a little warm-up time.

As much as we wish they did, kids don’t always warm up to people they don’t know right away. It might take a little bit of time for your children to become comfortable with the camera. However, taking a little extra time to introduce them to the photographer can pay off big time in the long run.

5. Snacks. Lots of snacks.

There’s nothing that makes children uncooperative like hunger. Be sure your children are well fed before the pictures. Also, it doesn’t hurt to bring a few snacks to be used as bribery. Let’s face it; we’re not above bribery for the perfect picture. Above are some of the results from our photo shoots. Notice how I didn’t include any pictures of the boys crying. (Believe me, those are there, too!)